Am i Bi????????????

Question

Am i Bi????????????
Hi, i am , A couple months ago i looked at porn, And now i am scared that i am bi because i looked at wemone naked. I have taken about quizzes on the internet and they all said i was straight, there is nothing wrong with being bi but i am a christian. I have made myself so upset about this that i have been crying, now when i look at a girl i get horny, and now i am having thoughts about weome having sex, and weome kissing. I dont want to be bi. But i am so scared i am. Mabey it is just a phase. Or hormoes. i have a boyfriend, and i love boys, and i want to one day get married and have a family. I am i bi, or am i just making myslef crazy?? Someone please help, i cant talk to my mom, or a teacher i go to a christian school or a friend, HELP!!!

Answer

Amber, for starters...calm down. Everyone goes through strange thoughts growing up trying to figure out who they are. You said you are a Christian so please remember to look to God. When you look at anyone and get quothornyquot you need to pray for God to help you. As you mature you will see that it is just a phase. I know I had some of the same feelings right around the same age and I am NOT bi....it was a phase. Also, you say you have a boyfriend. I pray that you are not having sex with him. You need to try and stay pure if you have already had sex it is not to late to ask for forgivness and be a born again virgin...that is what I am, that is what God wants for all of us. This world is so full of pressures for us all to conform to what others see as quotrightquot and these days being gay is an okay thing to do. When I was growing up that was not so. I cant imagine the pressure that girls and guys your age are going through. You need to stay away from the porn also. I know you cant imagine now that it will pollute your mind, but just think about it. These problems started with you watching porn. Just dont forget to pray hun. If you need someone who is unbiased and has been there please dont hesitate to email me... dawnchbelievesyahoo.com. I have done alot in my past that I regret and I believe that I can be of some help when you need it. I am here always. I check my email daily. Dawn